Comparison hurts who? Ourselves.
When we compare ourselves to others who "seem" to "have it all together", we lose track of the One person we need to look to for support: Jesus!
If you look carefully at the above post, you will notice that I struggle with this as well. Not to mention the rest of the world does too!
https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/05/frustrating-success-how-we-as-people.html, https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/12/beauty-and-comparison-it-stinks-you.html, https://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/05/jesus-chases-us-down-when-we-sin-how-to.html.
Honestly, I hope and pray this helps you out!